[KyPaintball]

Alright, I'm having a decent amount metric fuck-ton of problems right now relationship wise and it's having effects on most everything in my life, but I don't want to be that guy who complains about his problems on the Internet, what I'm asking at this point is: are you guys tired of the relationship problems threads and would rather not have another one posted up here?

Or Would you guys be willing to help a guy out?

I have tried asking my friends, but they either can't have a successful relationship themselves, or just tell me "nah bro don't put up with that" because they are my bros and don't want me to have to deal with it, but I really need an unbiased opinion..

[hogzilla88]

No.

[blckninja]

hogzilla88, on 08 March 2012 - 10:57 AM, said:

No.

He asked two questions silly and you only gave one answer.

[KyPaintball]

blckninja, on 08 March 2012 - 11:09 AM, said:

hogzilla88, on 08 March 2012 - 10:57 AM, said:

No.

He asked two questions silly and you only gave one answer.

He gave one answer, you gave zero.

I saw a bunch of other threads with good resolutions and Thought I might get a good one too, but you guys all have your own problems.

This post has been edited by KyPaintball: 08 March 2012 - 11:25 AM

[blckninja]

I wasn't respond to OP so answers weren't required.

[KyPaintball]

blckninja, on 08 March 2012 - 11:31 AM, said:

I wasn't respond to OP so answers weren't required.

Good point, but your still in my thread,

regardless of the above, have a nice day sir.

[redthirst]

I guess it depends on if you're going to be a dick to anyone who tries to give you advice like you're currently being to Ninja.

If not - sure, I'll throw my 2 cents out there.
If so - go fuck yourself.

[KyPaintball]

redthirst, on 08 March 2012 - 11:58 AM, said:

I guess it depends on if you're going to be a dick to anyone who tries to give you advice like you're currently being to Ninja.

If not - sure, I'll throw my 2 cents out there.
If so - go fuck yourself.

Not trying to be a dick, but i see how it was taken that way, I said even though he didn't reply to me to have a nice day, and I referred to him as sir, but if ninja feels the same way, sorry, wasn't trying to be a dick or offensive, just came off that way I guess

sh*t happens.

[Empire91]

I can throw my opinion into the ring. But we need to hear the problem first. Unless it's the same one you posted in the cheating thread, in which case my advice is this.

If you truly love her, and find that you can forgive her and she cleans her shit up, then give it another chance.

But, it seems like you want to end it, you just can't. I had the same thing happen to me about a month ago. Now my reasons are probably a lot different than your for wanting to end a relationship. But I had the same feeling that I just didn't want to break up. In any case, you just need to sack up and end it like a man. You're not doing yourself any good being in a relationship that has a major trust issue.

There's my two cents.

[Eskimo]

my opinion on any relationship outside of marriage (note I see your name down below but by the time this is written you may have already posted)

A relationship between 2 peoples is about growing, become mature adults, learning and sharing your life with a person who shares the same goals as you.
Affection is a product of that, when you become exited because you learned something new, or something occurs and you want to share your experiences through life with a person a bond forms and both people become more mature and gain experience from it.

At all times, A relationship should Not be about the other, But about helping the other, helping to push and strive to new advances in life, new adventures and new paths. All the while Striving to become the best you can be, And sharing your progress with that other.

Sadly sometimes those paths differentiate. and the goals you have take you in a different direction. Does this mean you ignore the bond you have created? NO. But it doesn't mean the prioritization your life flips upside down to sacrifice for another. as you progress through life you find new people. see new friends. and try to understand this hormonal quirk of nature called love.


(Note this above paragraph assumes both members of the relationship are people who genuinely want a relationship. Not a weekend Fuck to distract them from their right hand every second day)

This post has been edited by Eskimo: 08 March 2012 - 02:00 PM

[blckninja]

Eskimo, on 08 March 2012 - 01:58 PM, said:

my opinion on any relationship outside of marriage (note I see your name down below but by the time this is written you may have already posted)

A relationship between 2 peoples is about growing, become mature adults, learning and sharing your life with a person who shares the same goals as you.
Affection is a product of that, when you become exited because you learned something new, or something occurs and you want to share your experiences through life with a person a bond forms and both people become more mature and gain experience from it.

At all times, A relationship should Not be about the other, But about helping the other, helping to push and strive to new advances in life, new adventures and new paths.

Sadly sometimes those paths differentiate. and the goals you have take you in a different direction. Does this mean you ignore the bond you have created? NO. But it doesn't mean the prioritization your life flips upside down to sacrifice for another. as you progress through life you find new people. see new friends. and try to understand this hormonal quirk of nature called love.


(Note this above paragraph assumes both members of the relationship are people who genuinely want a relationship. Not a weekend Fuck to distract them from their right hand every second day)

Thank you for giving me a disclaimer to sig.

[redthirst]

Gotcha. Yeah I was a bit harsh too and didn't realize you had been cheated on... my apologies.

Here's the deal: I know you want things to work with this girl and I know you don't want to be alone or see her with other guys, but a girl that will cheat on you once will cheat on you again - that's just a fact. With that in mind, you have two options:

1. Forgive the girl - easier in the short-term but you look like a bitch, get laughed at behind your back, and can look forward to going through what you're currently feeling again and again for as long as you're willing to let her do it to you, or
2. Dump her - harder in the short-term but you keep some dignity and get to make room in your life for a future relationship with a girl who's worth a damn.

It hurts and it sucks, but eventually you're going to have to choose to sack up and be a man or live your life as a depressing pitiful shadow.

[Kid player]

KyPaintball, on 08 March 2012 - 10:41 AM, said:

Alright, I'm having a decent amount metric fuck-ton of problems right now relationship wise and it's having effects on most everything in my life, but I don't want to be that guy who complains about his problems on the Internet, what I'm asking at this point is: are you guys tired of the relationship problems threads and would rather not have another one posted up here?

Or Would you guys be willing to help a guy out?

I have tried asking my friends, but they either can't have a successful relationship themselves, or just tell me "nah bro don't put up with that" because they are my bros and don't want me to have to deal with it, but I really need an unbiased opinion..

http://www.techpb.co...howtopic=185474
go there

[Wolfwood]

You have one of three options.

1. Do what I do and never be in a relationship, ergo, no problems, remember, internet porn can't dump you.

2. Throw a jar of urine at her and go your own way.

3. Move on.

People come and people go, you'll be upset for a week, maybe two, then after the third you don't feel so bad, then the fourth week rolls around and you're feeling pretty good, and after that, what's her face will just be another skanky image on her Facebook profile.

I've said it once, and I'll say it again, Don't care about people who don't care about other people, except me, because I'm awesome.

And probably owe you 20 bucks, so it's best to keep me around.

[KyPaintball]

My apologies everyone as I did not look at this thread yesterday afternoon, I thought that was the extent of the replies I was going to get; I will post up the full story in a moment.