[81794mn]

ok so im no stranger to the rant forum here, but today i have a storie that truely hurts me.

My friend lets call her amanda life is REALLY fucked up and im going to try to help her out.

Well when i first meet amanda she seemed like a sweet girl that i could get along with. So we hang out a couple of times. Her parents are like SUPER rich to, andyways back on topic. After meeting her parents I fealt so sorry for this girl. Her parents kicked out her sister at the age of 15 for accidently wrecking there car. Now the really sad part here parents put amanda in modeling from a baby up. Her parents on multiple occasions would not let her eat, so she could fit in a dress. Her parents exposed her to multiple drugs to make her skinner. Now she has stopped doing these things but her parents are still horrible.

at 9pm last night her mother kicked her out of the house with out any clothes on because she had a boyfriend. So I get some clothes from my sister and go pick her up to help her out. shes standing out side her house in the freezing ass cold naked shivering and sobing, at this point i can not stand it any more! I take her the clothes and help her get dress and help her to my car and have her sit inside so she can stay warm. Now at this point i cant stand it anymore, i go to her front door and knock on it to talk to her dad about this situation. He answers the door and says " get the fuck out of here and take your slut!" and slams the door in my face. I leave a note saying i will be contacting child protective services and the police about this

so right now i have her staying at my house trying to help her out. In the morning im going to be calling cps on the fucking ridicoulus bullshit. I really want to help here out here cause shes never had anybody that helped her before, my girlfriend undertands everything im doing for this girl. I swear to god if her dad doesnt get jail time for this im going to loose all hope in society. OH dk if i dont make it to ccpp the 10th this is why.

my parents are understanding all of this and say its fine she stay at my house until we can get this straightended out. NO human being should be treated like this, food deprived, made to use drugs, and beatin. I just feal so sorry for her.

So thats what i have going on now.

This post has been edited by 81794mn: 29 December 2009 - 02:22 AM

[Xmas Asn]

call the cops

[81794mn]

i am in the morning right now im trying to keep her from crying, shes laying in my bed crying because of what happened.

[Trum_15]

just be there for her. then call the cops...

[Sigma Sparda]

Take care of her, get her calmed down, and get your parents involved. You as a teen have less clout than an adult in this situation, and your parents should know exactly what to do. Most importantly though, and as creepy as this sounds, don't leave her alone. Stick with her, sit by her bed, whatever. She's just been traumatized and needs support and needs to feel like there's someone there. Just being there and letting her know that you're not going to leave or make her leave is the best thing you can possibly do for the time being.

Give her my regards as well. Was kicked out myself not long back, and while it wasn't this intense, the feeling is the same. You did an excellent thing man, major props to you.

[81794mn]

Sigma Sparda, on 29 December 2009 - 02:28 AM, said:

Take care of her, get her calmed down, and get your parents involved. You as a teen have less clout than an adult in this situation, and your parents should know exactly what to do. Most importantly though, and as creepy as this sounds, don't leave her alone. Stick with her, sit by her bed, whatever. She's just been traumatized and needs support and needs to feel like there's someone there. Just being there and letting her know that you're not going to leave or make her leave is the best thing you can possibly do for the time being.

Give her my regards as well. Was kicked out myself not long back, and while it wasn't this intense, the feeling is the same. You did an excellent thing man, major props to you.

i am my dad is a lawyer so he knows the law very well, yes i know to be there for her shes actuly sitting right next to me as i type. my parents allready said she didnt have to leave so where good there. i couldnt just sit there and not help her

[81794mn]

well i got her calmned down, my dad came in and said he would take care of everything and he wouldnt let this go on. so hopefully we can get all this stuff straightened out. and as of right now it looks like im gona be having a roomate for the next month

[acidblasta]

Your sir are a good man and a great friend for doing what you did, and I think that if you keep being such a great friend to her she'll get through this just fine. and I have to say that my heart goes out to her, I have had many friends in tough family situations and I really feel for her.

But keep up the Good work bro. My suggestion is take her out to do something just to take her mind off the event. sometimes in these situation no matter what you do you can't stop thinking about it and it snowballs tell you can't stand it. and sometimes going out and doing something can distract you enough that you sort of reset emotionally after feeling something good or fun. that's just my experience.

I hope to see you around someday if not at CCPP. I think I will be their with a buddy of mine even if I don't have money to play.

[81794mn]

acidblasta, on 29 December 2009 - 02:45 AM, said:

Your sir are a good man and a great friend for doing what you did, and I think that if you keep being such a great friend to her she'll get through this just fine. and I have to say that my heart goes out to her, I have had many friends in tough family situations and I really feel for her.

But keep up the Good work bro. My suggestion is take her out to do something just to take her mind off the event. sometimes in these situation no matter what you do you can't stop thinking about it and it snowballs tell you can't stand it. and sometimes going out and doing something can distract you enough that you sort of reset emotionally after feeling something good or fun. that's just my experience.

I hope to see you around someday if not at CCPP. I think I will be their with a buddy of mine even if I don't have money to play.

yeah im taking her to see avatar with my girl and my friend tanner then to dinner. im gona try my hardest to make it to ccpp but im just not sure if this is still going on then im gona definatly stay for her and not leave her just to go balling

[rockout918]

You have a big heart, dude. That's cool that your gf understands, too. I don't know how long you're having her stay with you, but you should do what Acidblasta said. Maybe you and your gf can take her out and go watch a movie or go to an arcade or get outside. She would benefit from being distracted from all this hell she's in.

She must think she's been totally abandoned by her family...well, I guess she has actually. Does she have relatives??? She needs to be reminded that she has people that love her even if her parents are abusive...this qualifies as abusive on many levels! Be strong!

EDIT: Wow I'm slow at typing! There's been three new posts x_x

This post has been edited by rockout918: 29 December 2009 - 02:58 AM

[fsugonoles63]

Youre a helluva man for giving her so much help in her time of need. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and her

[acidblasta]

81794mn, on 29 December 2009 - 02:50 AM, said:

acidblasta, on 29 December 2009 - 02:45 AM, said:

Your sir are a good man and a great friend for doing what you did, and I think that if you keep being such a great friend to her she'll get through this just fine. and I have to say that my heart goes out to her, I have had many friends in tough family situations and I really feel for her.

But keep up the Good work bro. My suggestion is take her out to do something just to take her mind off the event. sometimes in these situation no matter what you do you can't stop thinking about it and it snowballs tell you can't stand it. and sometimes going out and doing something can distract you enough that you sort of reset emotionally after feeling something good or fun. that's just my experience.

I hope to see you around someday if not at CCPP. I think I will be their with a buddy of mine even if I don't have money to play.

yeah im taking her to see avatar with my girl and my friend tanner then to dinner. im gona try my hardest to make it to ccpp but im just not sure if this is still going on then im gona definatly stay for her and not leave her just to go balling

of course bro, I would hope no one would expect you to do that just for paintball. I am sure if you not out at CPPP this time around you will be at some event or another in the future.

[81794mn]

rockout918, on 29 December 2009 - 02:56 AM, said:

You have a big heart, dude. That's cool that your gf understands, too. I don't know how long you're having her stay with you, but you should do what Acidblasta said. Maybe you and your gf can take her out and go watch a movie or go to an arcade or get outside. She would benefit from being distracted from all this hell she's in.

She must think she's been totally abandoned by her family...well, I guess she has actually. Does she have relatives??? She needs to be reminded that she has people that love her even if her parents are abusive...this qualifies as abusive on many levels! Be strong!

EDIT: Wow I'm slow at typing! There's been three new posts x_x

no she has no relitives her parents where both only children and her grandparents are dead. trust me ive been telling her all night long telling her that i love her and im here for her and her parents arnt right. i just want to help her through this

acidblasta, on 29 December 2009 - 03:08 AM, said:

81794mn, on 29 December 2009 - 02:50 AM, said:

acidblasta, on 29 December 2009 - 02:45 AM, said:

Your sir are a good man and a great friend for doing what you did, and I think that if you keep being such a great friend to her she'll get through this just fine. and I have to say that my heart goes out to her, I have had many friends in tough family situations and I really feel for her.

But keep up the Good work bro. My suggestion is take her out to do something just to take her mind off the event. sometimes in these situation no matter what you do you can't stop thinking about it and it snowballs tell you can't stand it. and sometimes going out and doing something can distract you enough that you sort of reset emotionally after feeling something good or fun. that's just my experience.

I hope to see you around someday if not at CCPP. I think I will be their with a buddy of mine even if I don't have money to play.

yeah im taking her to see avatar with my girl and my friend tanner then to dinner. im gona try my hardest to make it to ccpp but im just not sure if this is still going on then im gona definatly stay for her and not leave her just to go balling

of course bro, I would hope no one would expect you to do that just for paintball. I am sure if you not out at CPPP this time around you will be at some event or another in the future.

oh yeah definatly gona be at the next event

[Butters]

You...Are....The....Man...

[81794mn]

thank you butters, thank you very much

[81794mn]

i will be takin her to shopping tomorrow so we can get her some clothes because we sure as hell not going back to her parents to get her clothes

[acidblasta]

I like how everyone who has posted in this thread has been encouraging and supportive. It just goes to show that not every paintball player is a uncarring ass hat. 1up for Techpb

[fsugonoles63]

81794mn, on 29 December 2009 - 04:07 AM, said:

i will be takin her to shopping tomorrow so we can get her some clothes because we sure as hell not going back to her parents to get her clothes

Well that sure wouldnt turn out pretty.

acidblasta, on 29 December 2009 - 04:09 AM, said:

I like how everyone who has posted in this thread has been encouraging and supportive. It just goes to show that not every paintball player is a uncarring ass hat. 1up for Techpb

Virtual highfive for you sir. Im not an asshat! yippee lol

[Shmilling_#83]

I hope everything Gets better for her. You are so right, no one deserves that. and you are a great guy for being there for her and supporting her through all of this.ill be praying for her.

[81794mn]

fsugonoles63, on 29 December 2009 - 04:10 AM, said:

81794mn, on 29 December 2009 - 04:07 AM, said:

i will be takin her to shopping tomorrow so we can get her some clothes because we sure as hell not going back to her parents to get her clothes

Well that sure wouldnt turn out pretty.

acidblasta, on 29 December 2009 - 04:09 AM, said:

I like how everyone who has posted in this thread has been encouraging and supportive. It just goes to show that not every paintball player is a uncarring ass hat. 1up for Techpb

Virtual highfive for you sir. Im not an asshat! yippee lol

yeah thats why im taking her shopping, +1 for techpb and alot of paintballers would do exactily the same thing, every single person on my team would give you the shirt off there back if u need it and thats the way it should be

This post has been edited by 81794mn: 29 December 2009 - 04:22 AM