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#1 SlovPeter

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 12:56 PM

Alright this bullshit has got to stop. My parents bailed on me at the last minute for ll5. Last year i couldn't go because of a relatives graduation. Ok so, they promise we will go next year if there no plans are crossing paths.

Well just a few days ago thy blatantly tell me i can't go. Now keep in mind i haven't seen a paintball field in close to 2 years. So,this event is drastically important for me.

This is the 2nd time they have bailed on me and I am really gettin sick of their shit. The worst i do as a kid is play Xbox 1 or 2 hours later than usual. I haven't even seen weed, and when I did, I found out it was catnip.

Like wtf my parents never even spend time with me. My sister always comes first. Including all of her hobbies, and sports. My sister has these travel games and I refuse to go because she never came to watch me play paintball. Hell, my mom has never even step onto a paintball field and realize how much I love the hobby.

Fucking pisses me off I have to de with their bullshit.

Damn it!!!

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 01:17 PM

first!

Sucks dude, when i get stuff in the mail sometimes my mom will thow it somewhere and make a huge deal about it. I'd be like, "WTF? You almost broke it, if you did... oOoOo...been so mad."

Parents. What can you say?

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 01:49 PM

no comment, except sorry bro.
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Posted 17 May 2012 - 02:23 PM

Wouldn't let it get to you. Just say "Alright"

The best thing you can do is get decent grades, and get a vehicle and job ASAP

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 02:32 PM

Well they let me down on a lot of things and this was my breaking poit. Ivebhad family problems in the past and this jus makes t worse.

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 02:36 PM

Unless you have a friend you can stay with, you don't really have an option. What kind of things?



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Posted 17 May 2012 - 03:37 PM

I know how you feel man. I don't get any support from my parents. (my mom helped me out a few times) But according to my step dad paintball is a "pussy" sport and it requires no skill or physical fitness. All we do is "sit behind something and shoot at each other all day" He wouldn't actually know because he hasn't ever seen me or any of my friends play. Pisses me off. Posted Image I don't let it get to me though, try and shake it off. Go earn you some money and go play with it. Show your parents that you don't need there help with paintball. Its what i had to do. Depends on your situation though i guess.

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 03:49 PM

That sucks. My parents support me 100%. As long as it doesnt interfere with my dads schedule, he will drive me about anywhere. The only thing that sucks is that they dont give me money often, but thats what I have a job.

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 05:08 PM

According to my step dad paintball is a "pussy" sport and it requires no skill or physical fitness. All we do is "sit behind something and shoot at each other all day" He wouldn't actually know because he hasn't ever seen me or any of my friends play


I wouldn't give a fuck what he said then. Show him a picture of pro-players with all their shirts off. Are you kidding?

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 05:15 PM


According to my step dad paintball is a "pussy" sport and it requires no skill or physical fitness. All we do is "sit behind something and shoot at each other all day" He wouldn't actually know because he hasn't ever seen me or any of my friends play


I wouldn't give a fuck what he said then. Show him a picture of pro-players with all their shirts off. Are you kidding?


I told him about pro leagues and players. It didn't do me any good lol

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 06:07 PM



According to my step dad paintball is a "pussy" sport and it requires no skill or physical fitness. All we do is "sit behind something and shoot at each other all day" He wouldn't actually know because he hasn't ever seen me or any of my friends play


I wouldn't give a fuck what he said then. Show him a picture of pro-players with all their shirts off. Are you kidding?


I told him about pro leagues and players. It didn't do me any good lol


Challenge him to a one on one and bunker him(maybe bonus ball him?), ask if it's a pussy sport after that lol.

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 06:34 PM

Sorry dude that stinks, my parents don't really support paintball cause they think it's a waste of money, what pissed me off is I tore my acl a year and half ago so I quit soccer cause they wouldn't let me play right after rehab. N I quit baseball cause I missed a year. So they always rag on me for not doing anything, but when I mention paintball, they roll their eyes. Like u, never seen any drugs, never taken a sip, straight As, possibly one B. I guess they don't really think paintball is a substitute

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 06:56 PM

"Hey I'm out!!!"
"Quit bitching, pussy..."

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 07:26 PM

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 08:51 PM

He also refuses to play me one on one. I even offered to use a pump gun and let him use my gun, he still refuses. Told me if i ever shot him he would just run up and beat the hell out of me. Mature right? haha

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 08:54 PM

He also refuses to play me one on one. I even offered to use a pump gun and let him use my gun, he still refuses. Told me if i ever shot him he would just run up and beat the hell out of me. Mature right? haha


lol wow, kinda sounds hypocritical Posted Image I'm glad my dad goes when he has time...which is hardly ever but it's nice when he does.

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Posted 17 May 2012 - 09:45 PM

He also refuses to play me one on one. I even offered to use a pump gun and let him use my gun, he still refuses. Told me if i ever shot him he would just run up and beat the hell out of me. Mature right? haha


... Is he 12 years old?...

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 08:51 AM

Run the gauntlet and when you come home take off your shirt in front of him and ask him if it's a pussy sport now...
Actually I just want to see someone run the gauntlet.

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 09:47 AM

Idk man, i wait a long time and nothing happens. Only thing my parents buy me are clothes and those have to be on lay away.

I don't bitch a lot but when this happened I was furious

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 09:48 AM

Can you get a job?

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 11:10 AM


He also refuses to play me one on one. I even offered to use a pump gun and let him use my gun, he still refuses. Told me if i ever shot him he would just run up and beat the hell out of me. Mature right? haha


... Is he 12 years old?...


No he just a major asshole. lol

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 11:24 AM

Why the hell are some people teling him to move out if he can... Its one thing to have a abusive home, and another to have stupid parents

Viagra, lubricant, and pornographic movies? If that package arrived at my house, I'd be calling a babysitter and making reservations at the Marriott

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 02:30 PM

It sounds like they're ignoring him completely. If it was just this, it'd be different

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Posted 18 May 2012 - 03:37 PM

I can and most likely will get one this summer. My mom said she hated me one day because i ate the left over pizza. Oh yea, and my mom was buzzed on mother day from a martini and was in public, not acting.

Apparently I ruined it for saying she wasn't responsible for being buzzed and being in public arguing with everyone. She said she would need forgive me.

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Posted 19 May 2012 - 03:42 AM

Best thing to do in my opinion and from my experience. Just do everything they ask above and beyond what they ask, then when you have the chance, get a job, then a car (all on your own, no strings, pay your own insurance etc. It is expensive), and finally move out. Cut all financial ties to them. If they truly don't give a shit about you, don't visit, if they still don't call or anything like that. Fuck em, you're on your own making your own way. It's hard, and it's not right, but sometimes you just have to buck up and do it.

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Posted 20 May 2012 - 07:54 PM

Sounds to me your mother didn't want a boy, instead she wanted to have a girl. They got it and now your father is running after his wife, not caring about you.

Best thing to do, Wait till you can move out and cut all ties with them.

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Posted 23 May 2012 - 02:04 PM

Well apparently when I was born, my mom had severe attitude problems and had to take meds to control them. She stopped and she going into pre menopause.

I have been wanting a motorycle for a long time also. I rode dirtbike when I was little so it's no an impulse look cool kind of thing. I feel more comfortable on them, even though they are dangerous. I am tryingntonfind a job and open my own bank account which they have no access of.

One day she loves me, even though we always argue. I want her to drop and argument and she has to have the las word even though she has already won.

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