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#1 Potato

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Posted 25 January 2013 - 12:52 AM

I am a nice person and I do care about people but I am a gigantic sarcastic asshole to some people who don't deserve it and I try to keep quite when I see swag or yolo or some stupid facebook post about 12 year old girls in love (I'm 13, 14 on march 24th) and I can't resist being sarcastic or keeping quite.

Story time, one of my teachers got mad at me for a pretty bad reason and she would've only talked to me for 2 minutes but instead I needed to have a comeback to everything she said (this was at lunch) So as retaliation to this, she wasted half my lunch break because I couldn't shut up and listen.

I developed this from being verbally bullied and I found being sarcastic really helps but I took it too far. I know I can fix this as I've also fixed my anger issues (I would hold my feelings in until somebody got on my last nerve and then I flipped out on them)

So any advice regarding stopping the urge to speak would be appreciated.
And on a side note, I get distracted in class easy and does anybody have some advice for that?

Thanks.

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Posted 25 January 2013 - 01:01 AM

Bite your tongue and take it.

You are learning a very important life lesson of taking shit from people. This is useful in jobs and getting out of trouble.

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Posted 25 January 2013 - 09:26 AM

Bite your tongue and take it.

You are learning a very important life lesson of taking shit from people. This is useful in jobs and getting out of trouble.

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Posted 25 January 2013 - 11:25 AM

but I am a gigantic sarcastic asshole to some people who don't deserve it






maybe assuming other people deserve to be treated that way in the first place is your biggest problem
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Posted 25 January 2013 - 11:37 PM

One thing I've learned over time, is while it is immensely amusing to shoot off some smartass comment, sometimes, no a lot of times, the absolute best thing you can say is nothing.

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Posted 26 January 2013 - 12:37 AM

There are proper times to be a sarcastic asshole, and then there are other times, where you have to watch what you say. You'll experiment and learn. Often it depends on the other person.

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Posted 26 January 2013 - 02:16 AM

Seclude yourself from others, or you could try duct tape.

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Posted 26 January 2013 - 02:32 AM

think it. laugh in your head. shut the fuck up.
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Posted 26 January 2013 - 09:39 AM

we all know that i know a little something about being a sarcastic asshole.


and honestly literally biting my tongue works the best for me. and really think about what your gonna say too, it helps.
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Posted 27 January 2013 - 11:26 AM

If someone is a swaglet and they try to come at you then do not be scared to retaliate and make them look stupid. If someone who is generally nice makes a joke about you though, you need to laugh it off. Most of the time when someone takes something offensively as a teenager it is something that was never meant to be took offensively. Most of the time us teenagers are just making jokes and if you do not know how to take a joke that is a serious life problem. If you are just shooting off smart-ass remarks to people who come at you first then feel free to continue what you are doing, I do believe people need to be put in their place. Be careful who you mouth off to though, I learned the hard way that there are people who will get physically violent and those are never fun situations no matter which side you come out on.




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